• Fiona Bielby

Beccy and Dan's DIY sensation at Deepdale Farm, Kirbymoorside.

Updated: Jul 17, 2020

A celebration of colour and art, this is one of describing what Beccy and Dan’s day looked like…It was a day like no other they broke all the traditions: Christmas songs in June; getting ready together and even walking to the registry office as a couple.


Bride and Good together
Beccy and Dan's outfits worked really well together, despite being totally different to the usual wedding day wear!

When we first got together to chat through their plans for their wedding day a few weeks before the wedding, they told me about what they’d been up to so far. With the wedding venue being a blank canvas for couples to do as they please, they’d been really busy! Beccy works in the Art department at York College, so there’s no the wonder their day came together so well. With giant moons and flowers, glitter galore, handmade head dressings and a mirage of colourful country flowers, Deepdale Farm Weddings looked unreal, in the best way possible!

Old fashioned bike, reading Deepdale
Deepdale Farm Weddings have the best little quirks, if you get time to look for them.
Venue Entrance.
The view from the entrance at Deepdale Farm, across to the two barns.
Venue all decorated
Taken from the entrance of the barn, what an incredible job this couple did.
The venue
It looked so good for every angle.
the favours
It was such a fun idea to add little games for the guests as favours.
Table decor
The glass bottles and country flowers worked impeccably well.
Activities for the guests
Just a tattoo, face paint and glitter table for the guests to play with.
Van Goth Painting
Every art teacher needs one of these!
Photo Booth
What else would you have as a Photo Booth, other than a giant moon?
Tipis
Deepdale Farm offers camping accommodation for your guests too, they have all bases covered.

Not only did the venue look good, so did the Bride and Groom, Beccy had found her dress in a charity shop and had reinvented it, adding colourful badges and motifs, the dress was almost like a piece of art that represented every corner of Beccy’s personality. Dan, I’m sure you guessed went down a slightly less conventional route too, with his bright and highly patterned shirt, jeans and leopard print converse! Their dress code was to be comfortable and their day was as informal as any wedding affair could be, with a Fish & Chips wedding breakfast straight from the van, followed by a Pork Pie wedding cake, lashings of cheese, biscuits and pickles for the night guests.


Details on the dress
As you can see, Beccy made a great job of the dress, the detailed soulder arrangement coincided with the colourful outfit Dan wore too.
nails
Nails to match and isn't that a beautiful engagement ring!
Shoes
Beccy's shoes of course had been clearly planned down to the finest detail.

rings
The rings were designed and handmade by Beccy's friend Ellie Crosby.

Bride and Groom Shoes.
What an awesome shoe combo!
Pork Pie Cake
No, it wasn't just any pork pie, it was personalised and made to order by Appleton Butchers.
Cake cutting
The 'cake cutting' it was pretty tough to cut through the crunchy pastry.

When it came to choosing the venue, they knew the most important thing to them was to have a blank canvas they didn’t want a traditional wedding venue, they wanted their day to be a true testament to them both. They wanted to DIY as much of the décor as humanly possible, be in beautiful surroundings and eat what they love to eat the most without anyone specifying this for them. Deepdale was the perfect place for this! Set in the stunning countryside, just below Hutton-le-hole, with two hosts who just want their couples express themselves and to be able to enjoy their surrounding.


Wedding Stationary.
I absolutely loved their wedding invites, this was pinned to their fridge door in their home.
Bride.
A beautiful portrait of Beccy in the Gypsy Caravan, sheltering from the rain midway through out photo session.
Accommodation at Deepdale Farm
The pair of them in the Gypsy Caravan, this is aways on site at Deepdale, Beccy and Dan stayed in here on their wedding night.
Portrait of the Bride and Groom
Even the caravan matched their bright colour theme.
Rings and silhouettes
Dancing in the rain.
Even in the rain Deepdale has quite the backdrop.
Walking hand in hand.
The way they look at each other, this is why hanging back as the photographer and getting the couple to be them is so important.
Kissing.

When creating a DIY wedding it’s important to be organised, Beccy and Dan shared some tips with me…

“We started planning almost as soon as we got engaged and had the venue booked within a couple of months. We used a free wedding planner spreadsheet we found online, and because we had a strict budget (and knew if we weren’t careful we’d spend wildly!) that was a godsend. From start to finish it was 17 months of planning, gathering and making and we still; l ran out of time for some of the things we wanted to do.

We roped in our parents, brother and sister, grandparents, aunts, uncles and friends to help us get everything ready. Beccy’s mum made the huge paper flowers, the moon ‘photobooth’, the signs, all the crowns and most of the fancy dress. Beccy’s gran sewed superhero capes. Everyone was on the lookout for brightly coloured glass and travel games for the tables (which were borrowed from Dan’s mum). Beccy refashioned her wedding dress from one she found in Sue Ryder for £26 and sewed blankets and quilts so the hay bales wouldn’t be scratchy. For two days before the wedding it was all hands on deck stapling, swaging and laying the tables.”

They chose wedding suppliers offline for the food, flowers and chairs everything else they made, borrowed or sourced from charity shops. For their DIY inspiration, they researched wedding blogs like “Rock my Wedding” and created numerous mood boards on Pinterest along with just making things up as they went along, this is why I think their day looked so good.

Flowers
Beccy's handmade bouquet, made using the flowers she's brought from Pickers.
Sewing button holes.
Even on the morning of the wedding they put the Bridesmaids to work, sewing button holes!
Close up of the sewing.
Finishing the edges and adding the safety pins.
The rings.
The rings had this amazing box for them to be transported safely to the registry office. Of course there was only the one box for both rings, what else would you expect?
Bridesmaids Jackets
The bridesmaids jackets, so many sequins!!
The exchange of rings.
Beccy and Dan write their own vows, now only were these heart-felt they were humours too, so everyone enjoyed a little chuckle during the ceremony.
The vows.
Even the Bride and Groom did too!
Using the photobooth
Just the moon photo booth in action! I'm totally love the outfits the guests wore!
Guests at the wedding.
Someone was happy with the games that were on the table!
Head dress
An amazing head dress that was put out for their guests to wear, yes, homemade!
Floral head dress.
And another!
The bar area
The bar setup at Deepdale Farm.
Photo booth
Beccy and Dan's niece enjoying acting for her photo on the photo-booth.
Fish and chip supper.
Luckily, it stopped raining long enough for everyone to get their fish and chips.
The grooms sister and her daughter
Amazing use of the face paints and glitter gems.
Speeches
During the speeches.
Speeches.
Listening to Mum's speech...
Mirror image of one another.
Like father, like son...
Reactions during the slideshow.
The best woman put a fun slideshow together, sharing some lovely memories.
Family portrait.
Making use of them amazing handmade flowers, painted by Beccy's Mum, the perfect place for a family portrait.
Cake
Yum!!
Bride and Groom
The pair behind the vision, enjoying their day to the max.

How did the planning work? Who helped? How long did it take to plan? How did they organise & schedule?

Any fears or worries about the day? Rain! And yes it did rain, but it didn’t matter in the end. A sign of good luck I hear... For Dan it was the wedding dance but a few dancing lessons alleviated that fear.. a tad. Also our wedding playlist (that took months to perfect) was let says an eclectic mix, ranging from King Gizzard and the Lizzard Wizzard to Ben Folds Five.


First Dance.
This is the part of the day Dan was most nervous about.
Mid dance.
They seemed to enjoy it...
Action dancing
They'd been having dance lesson together in preparation for the day.
Dancing.
And they SMASHED it! Amazing effort you two.

Things you wish you didn't do or wish you had? Delegate more! When you’re doing a DIY wedding, it’s really easy to fall into the trap of thinking you have to do everything yourselves and you really don’t. On the day we spent a little too much time organising things and we wish we had spent that time just enjoying it.

Advice for future couples? If you’re doing a DIY wedding start planning and making really early. Don’t underestimate just how long it takes. Also don’t underestimate the amount of space wedding stuff takes up in your house (and probably other peoples too!) so be prepared to live with it for months before the big day. Make a really good itinerary so you don’t forget anything. We’re finding things in cupboards now that we had bought for the wedding and just forgotten because towards the end it gets so hectic.


Front door.
Even Beccy and Dan's front door is brightly coloured, I couldn't help but get a photo of it!
Getting ready.
Enjoying the relaxed way of getting ready together with the bridal party and loads of guests that kept knocking on the door!
Walking to the ceremony.
Walking to the registry office together.
Giving her away.
Mum walked her down the aisle and she looks so proud!
Mum walking Beccy down the aisle.
Holding hands, mid ceremony.
Whispering in his ear.
Confetti shot
Time to throw some confetti.
Confetti
and get the party started!
confetti tunnel

Confetti
They seemed to enjoy it :)
A confetti thrower...
Someone else was loving throwing the confetti!