Fun, yes, fabulous, yes (the Bride is nothing but) and Flamboyant? YES!! Oh, my, days...The party at Lydia and Liam's wedding was mental! Good mental of course, I'll reveal why and how later. Honestly though, I was particularly excited about this wedding after spending the past 3 years working closely with Lydia at Malton Primary, I'd heard about all the details 1st hand and had been closely involved with certain aspects from the beginning of this couples wedding planning journey...
The all time big question...How did they choose their venue?
It was suggested to Lydia by her friend who had seen pictures of it on Instagram. I remember her telling me the story of her first visit very clearly, we laughed a lot as Lydia made it sound like an old people's home! When she went to visit first of all Lydia was with her mum. It was an hour away from where Liam and Lydia lived so she wasn’t sure it was right for them as she was concerned about their guests having to travel so far, because of this, she actually didn’t invite Liam. When she pulled up outside she realised straight away it was a caravan/ chalet park and even thought about turning straight back to a local pub they'd seen for lunch instead of looking around. It was her Mum who convinced her to give it a go... When they went inside they met Angela, Lydia warmed to her right away, she was so lovely- really organised and talkative. She showed them around and to Lydia's surprise, the hall was beautiful! She also showed them the rooms their families could stay in, the ground and a pond nearby. Everything was beautifully simple. She thought then it could be the venue for them but there were 2 things she wanted to check:
1. That I would be able to get some lovely groups photos without caravans in the backgrounds.
2. That the food was really good as that was extremely important to them.
So for Lydia's second visit we went together and really, I couldn’t understand what she was so worried about, I didn't even see any old people and the caravans could be hidden easily, especially as we knew the foliage would have grown up by August. So
Liam and Lydia visited together on their ‘one year to go’ with their parents. They sampled the menu and everything was delicious. The deal was sealed!
I can vouch for this I ate there twice and was very impressed.
Colour scheme – who chose it and the influence behind it?
We didn’t really have a colour scheme as such! We just tried to tie in a few key things. The bridesmaid's dresses were pale/ dusty blue so I chose a few decorations to match. My step mum made some blue beaded birds to hand and my mum put blue on the cake. The invitations and other stationary were cream with lots of green leaves and plants. I made sure our bouquets and button holes were green with some pale pinks in too – just because I liked the flowers!
Did it live up to their expectations?
"Absolutely. Having people around you who are calm and prepared but also understanding that you may be stressed/ worried was invaluable. She answered emails quickly and efficiently. She had a folder so when we visited she had all of our emails and requests together in one place. We felt really well looked after. On the day she was really calm, came and visited both of us in the morning and wished us well. She popped in at different parts of the day to check how we were, made sure we always had drinks etc."
What’s your favourite memory?
After the ceremony we walked out to bagpipes and confetti. We hadn’t 100% planned what it would be like, just that a friend would play the bagpipes and the bridesmaids would hand out confetti. That was the first time we properly saw everyone who had come! And the afterwards we could mingle and chat. I felt calm as I was now married! I felt like nothing could go wrong and I could just enjoy my day.
What’s Liam’s fondest moment?
Just as I sat down after finishing my speech. I was so nervous beforehand; it was always in the back of my mind. Even as everyone was mingling outside and chatting, I was just running my speech over in my head. However, as soon as I sat down after finishing it was almost as if the day started then for me, all the pressure and anxiety left me and I could really enjoy myself. We originally planned on having the speeches after the meal, I’m so glad we changed them to before otherwise I wouldn’t have been able to enjoy the food at all.
Is there anything you felt went really well?
We really took advantage of having such kind and thoughtful friends. Some friends made our invitations, some played music/ sung for us! Family made decorations; my mum made the cake. Other friends did beautiful readings and did our photography. We really felt so lucky to have everyone around us; and it helped our friends were so talented!
Advice to couples who are planning...
We got to a stage around 6 months before the wedding where we had enough key things in place to calm us. 6 months to go and we were saying ‘if we do nothing else the day will still go ahead and be lovely’. It was good to know that everything we did was just extra and not essential.
Anything you wish you’d done differently?
Yes! We made a snack table for guests to nibble but put it inside as we were worried about flies. It was barely touched as it was such a lovely day everyone was outside!
Because I was there literally to the death of the party, I was there to capture all the epic dance moves too...The Bride and Groom about lifted the roof!
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Venue: The Gamekeepers Inn, Grassington.
Photography: Anoif Photography.